Schadenfreude: Are You a Victim or Perpetrator? Discover the Surprising Truth.
Schadenfreude; a very interesting word, isn't it? So what is it, and why would one write about it? And why should I continue reading?
First, let's explore what schadenfreude means. It is the peculiar pleasure derived from the misfortune of others. And here's the surprising truth: you, yes you, have both been a victim and a perpetrator of Schadenfreude. It’s a German term composed of two words: 'Schaden' meaning harm or damage, and 'Freude' meaning joy or pleasure."
Today, while casually scrolling through my Facebook feed as I usually do, I stumbled upon an interesting post discussing a book. The person who posted it had actually found a little typo in the text, nothing too dramatic, just a tiny misspelling. But what caught my attention were the comments on the post—they were pretty intriguing. The person expressed how it "really bothered them that an 'abhorrent typo' like that could slip through all the human checkers, you know, the editors and such."
"Now, to be fair, most of the comments on the post were telling the poster to 'just let it go' and that they were being overly picky. But, interestingly enough, there were a few comments that took the opposite stance. One comment, in particular, caught my eye. The commenter said, 'I actually enjoy finding typos and giving them a hard time about it. Especially when it comes from a well-known author with a strong following.'
Now, let's delve deeper into this comment. The person sharing their viewpoint derives 'pleasure' from identifying and highlighting the mistakes of others, specifically when it comes to typos. What adds an interesting twist is that, in their perspective, the satisfaction amplifies when the mistake is made by a well-known author with a significant following. They genuinely relish the chance to confront these individuals (anonymously, of course) and bring their errors to their attention.
It's a peculiar form of satisfaction derived from wielding the power to point out flaws while maintaining a certain level of detachment. Or is it? Well, it's not. It goes beyond mere satisfaction—it's Schadenfreude.
With today's easy autonomy given to us by social media, Schadenfreude is running rampant. As said before, It's the delight we feel when witnessing the misfortunes or mistakes of others, often accompanied by a sense of superiority. Social media platforms have provided us with the means to indulge in this phenomenon on a larger scale, making it more prevalent than ever before.
Ask yourself, have you ever done such a thing? Have you ever given a thumbs down to something you didn't really have an opinion about but thought, 'What the hell, I don't like them anyway, so...'? Or perhaps you've experienced a twinge of petty jealousy when someone accomplished something you hadn't and clicked that 'hide' button. Yes, you have. It's okay if you don't want to admit it openly, but deep down, you know the truth.
We've all been there. I'm not above it, and I freely admit it. Schadenfreude is a universal human experience that manifests in various forms, whether we like to acknowledge it or not.
As for this poster and the comments they received, you go girl! Go ahead and indulge in your fantasy of superiority. But let me break it to you: you're not superior to anyone else. In fact, no one is.
Are you someone who has experienced Schadenfreude or found themselves indulging in it? Share your thoughts in the comments section below.
-Marshall